"... in the attempt to be freed of the enemy without, we can be tempted to feed the enemy within"
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
2010-12-28: Sizes of planets
Nigel knows that Mars is red and is where martians live (heh). He knows that Saturn has many rings, and that Jupiter is the very largest of all the planets. We have not talked yet about the solar system, or that there are other systems out there. Mom and Dad both point out planets when they are visible in the night sky, and recently saw the reddish-colored Mars in the sky while out for an evening walk with Nigel.
Thursday, December 16, 2010
2010-12-16: Black steam engine dream
Sunday, December 12, 2010
2010-12-12: Quizzing Dad
"Dad, what sound does a sheep make?"
"Baa"
"Good. What sound does a dolphin make?"
...
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
2010-12-08: Morning dreams and teaching words to Dad
Later in the morning, Dad was driving Nigel to pre-school. Dad hadn't been talking much, as he was just getting over being sick with a stomach bug, and was still feeling very weak. As they were getting close to the school, and were waiting at a stop light, they had the following conversation:
"Dad, say, 'Tree'."
"Tree."
"Good job. Say, 'House'."
"House"
"Say 'shop'."
"Shop"
etc...
This continued through several words, seemingly things that Nigel could see from his car seat, including: "Brown", "White", "Green" (probably inspired by the light turning green at that time), and "Red" (probably also from the stop light). It was a fun game, and interesting for Dad to have Nigel teaching words to him, for a change. :)
Thursday, November 25, 2010
2010-11-25: The Ring and the King
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Nigel singing "In a Cottage"
Here is Nigel giving us a performance of In the Cottage. He starts out a bit shy but has all the actions by the end. He really loves action songs right now and this is one of his favorites!!
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Changes
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Vegetarian recipes
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
2010-10-26: Lars and Anne's wedding reception
Nigel remembered that statement for some time to come, occasionally mentioning something about Anne's pretty dress even months later.
2010-10-26: Butterfly dream
Thursday, September 2, 2010
2010-09: Big toot
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
2010-09-01: Note to a (Theoretical) Teacher
Dear Teacher,
We wanted to send over some information about Nigel and about our parenting style, in hopes it will be useful to you.
Nigel is a bright and bubbly child, though he is often shy in new surroundings and with new people. Verbal communication has always been an anchor for him. Nigel talks a great deal when he is comfortable in his surroundings and with people he is accustomed to.
Talking with him is one of the best ways to encourage him to perform a task or try new things. Nigel responds well to clear directions most of the time, when not distracted by exciting or interesting diversions. He enjoys helping, and performs tasks like cleaning up reliably, if given clear direction. His attention span for following directions is quite short, however, so frequent instruction is typically necessary.
Talking seems to also be one of the most effective way to calm him when he is upset. Telling him clearly when it is time to stop crying or to calm down often produces good results, getting him to refocus away from the situation or what upset him and onto the person giving the instruction. If successful, his response will be, "Okay."
We are beginning to use time-outs as a measure of discipline, not yet as any sort of punishment, but as a short time to sit and talk very briefly about what to do and what not to do. Taking him out of the situation and talking clearly (and very concisely!) about it has been somewhat effective thus far.
Nigel typically responds very well to a clear and immediate "No" when first doing something inappropriate. If not stated immediately upon his engaging in the inappropriate activity, or if a clear and serious tone is not used, his response to being told "No" is not nearly as good. Note that a threatening tone should not be necessary, simply not a joking or silly tone - plain or serious, depending on the severity of the situation.
Like many, if not all, children, Nigel enjoys personal attention from adults. He loves reading stories, though he is accustomed to cuddling with a parent during storytimes at home. Nigel likes books, but often has a short attention span for new material. His attention span grows dramatically through exposure. Nigel also loves songs and singing. He rarely sings when not alone with Mom or Dad, but often does so when with either parent. He loves listening to music or listening to singing, anytime. He also enjoys performing actions with songs, but is reluctant to do so in new situations. Nigel also loves animals, including cuddling and playing with stuffed animals, dressing up as animals, and playing with other animal toys.
Nigel is beginning to understand sharing and taking turns. He is familiar with those words, and has had some, but not a lot, of practice at them.
Nigel learns well by way of talking. He picks up new words very quickly, and seems to acquire new concepts well if strongly connected with words. Talking about a concept, and emphasizing one (or possibly two) new words along with the idea, seems to be a very effective teaching strategy for Nigel right now.
Christian and Kelly Mansfield
2010-09-01: Note to a (Theoretical) Teacher
Dear Teacher,
We wanted to send over some information about Nigel and about our parenting style, in hopes it will be useful to you.
Nigel is a bright and bubbly child, though he is often shy in new surroundings and with new people. Verbal communication has always been an anchor for him. Nigel talks a great deal when he is comfortable in his surroundings and with people he is accustomed to.
Talking with him is one of the best ways to encourage him to perform a task or try new things. Nigel responds well to clear directions most of the time, when not distracted by exciting or interesting diversions. He enjoys helping, and performs tasks like cleaning up reliably, if given clear direction. His attention span for following directions is quite short, however, so frequent instruction is typically necessary.
Talking seems to also be one of the most effective way to calm him when he is upset. Telling him clearly when it is time to stop crying or to calm down often produces good results, getting him to refocus away from the situation or what upset him and onto the person giving the instruction. If successful, his response will be, "Okay."
We are beginning to use time-outs as a measure of discipline, not yet as any sort of punishment, but as a short time to sit and talk very briefly about what to do and what not to do. Taking him out of the situation and talking clearly (and very concisely!) about it has been somewhat effective thus far.
Nigel typically responds very well to a clear and immediate "No" when first doing something inappropriate. If not stated immediately upon his engaging in the inappropriate activity, or if a clear and serious tone is not used, his response to being told "No" is not nearly as good. Note that a threatening tone should not be necessary, simply not a joking or silly tone - plain or serious, depending on the severity of the situation.
Like many, if not all, children, Nigel enjoys personal attention from adults. He loves reading stories, though he is accustomed to cuddling with a parent during storytimes at home. Nigel likes books, but often has a short attention span for new material. His attention span grows dramatically through exposure. Nigel also loves songs and singing. He rarely sings when not alone with Mom or Dad, but often does so when with either parent. He loves listening to music or listening to singing, anytime. He also enjoys performing actions with songs, but is reluctant to do so in new situations. Nigel also loves animals, including cuddling and playing with stuffed animals, dressing up as animals, and playing with other animal toys.
Nigel is beginning to understand sharing and taking turns. He is familiar with those words, and has had some, but not a lot, of practice at them.
Nigel learns well by way of talking. He picks up new words very quickly, and seems to acquire new concepts well if strongly connected with words. Talking about a concept, and emphasizing one (or possibly two) new words along with the idea, seems to be a very effective teaching strategy for Nigel right now.
Christian and Kelly Mansfield
2010-09: Making hot chocolate
Making hot chocolate is a detailed process. They start with the tea kettle, filling it with water at the sink. Nigel makes a "glug, glug" sound for the water pouring. Next, the tea kettle goes on the stove to be heated. Dad reminds Nigel to turn the stove on (which he does with a "click, click" sound effect), and they get out one or both mugs, depending on how many they can find. While they wait for the tea kettle to whistle, Dad asks Nigel if they should put mix into the mugs. Once the mix has been poured, Nigel likes for Dad to make the whistling sound for the tea kettle, even though he is quite capable of making a very good whistling sound, himself. Now, when the kettle whistles, Nigel takes it from the stove, and pours its contents into the mugs. Nigel likes the next step: stirring the hot chocolate, then always drains his mug in a single gulp. As soon as it is gone, he typically asks, "Dad, can we make some more hot chocolate?"
Sunday, August 1, 2010
2010-08: Hiccing up
Friday, July 23, 2010
2010-07-23: Pioneer Day in Bountiful
First carnival ride, at Bountiful Park: [image here]
Mom handed Nigel his ticket, and all by himself, he took and presented it to the attendant and was placed on the ride. He had a great time, and was the youngest child riding.
Dad arrived in the evening, after work, and the whole family went to see the Bountiful Pioneer Day Parade. Grammy, Aunt Brooks, Cyruss and Trinidee were there, but Cyruss wasn't feeling well, so he didn't come to the parade. The parade had tractors, floats, horses and ponies, lots of kids marching and dancing, bands playing music, clowns (including one on a little go-kart), and big trucks. Nigel particularly like the go-kart and the dancing.
2010-07-23: Pioneer Day in Bountiful
Dad arrived in the evening, after work, and the whole family went to see the Bountiful Pioneer Day Parade. Grammy, Aunt Brooks, Cyruss and Trinidee were there, but Cyruss wasn't feeling well, so he didn't come to the parade. The parade had tractors, floats, horses and ponies, lots of kids marching and dancing, bands playing music, clowns (including one on a little go-kart), and big trucks. Nigel particularly like the go-kart and the dancing.
For his first carnival ride, Mom handed Nigel his ticket, and all by himself, he took it to the presented it to the attendant and was placed on the ride. He had a great time, and was the youngest child riding.
2010-07-23: Peacock dream
Thursday, July 22, 2010
2010-07-22: Talking after a day at Danna's house
Danna has said many complimentary things about Nigel. She has mentioned repeatedly how well behaved he is, and how expansive his vocabulary is. Today, Danna mentioned that Nigel was speaking five- to six-word sentences during the day, and how remarkable she thought that was.
Monday, July 19, 2010
2010-07-19: Fashion Place shopping mall
On entering the mall's main drag, they encountered a platform with several motorized vehicle toys. Nigel played in, on and around the school bus and train, but had little interest in the other vehicles (ice cream truck, etc.). Dad took his new phone to a kiosk to have a protective film applied, then they walked back to see the train again while waiting for the phone to be finished.
After several more minutes of playing, they walked to the center of the mall, where Nigel proceeded to run back and forth between and into several footstools and chairs put there for shoppers to rest on. There were almost no people in the area, so he had plenty of room to play. He ran around for a few minutes, then took off yelling, "Oh, oh, oh!" Dad ran after and grabbed him, then Nigel said, "clock tower," referring to a large clock on a tower outside a clock and watch shop. Nigel was very excited about the clock tower. This is something he has really taken to since first being introduced to the thing by Trinidee, who had shown the City and County building's clock tower to him.
On the way out of the mall, Dad grabbed a breadstick sample, stuck on a toothpick, for Nigel. Nigel licked and played with the bread until well after they arrived back at home, and was sad to finally see it go, but was willing to give it up to be able to climb on the furniture again.
Sunday, July 11, 2010
2010-07-11: Riding a kangaroo dream
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
2010-07-07: Conversation with Nigel
Just had a real conversation with Nigel.
"Mom, what doing?"
"Making rice. What are you doing?"
"Drinking apple juice. HELP! Foot stuck!"
His foot had just gotten stuck in a chair.
Saturday, June 19, 2010
2010-06-19: Sandals, not slippers
Thursday, June 17, 2010
2010-06-17: "Danna house fun", "... a lot"
On the drive home, Nigel started talking about things he liked. He said, "Danna house fun, I like it." He then starting saying "a lot" in connection with a number of different things, presumably meaning that he liked it a lot. Those things included:
"Mommy a lot, Pupagus a lot, Grammy a lot, Grandpa..., Grandma..., Elephant..., Fountain... (Nigel and Dad had just driven past a fountain), Tiger..., Blanket...
Monday, June 14, 2010
2010-06-14: Counting and letter 'X'
Later, playing Guess Who, Nigel spontaneously began counting as he lowered the playing pieces. He consistently said, as he played, "1, 2, 3, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10." he has liked six for quite some time now, and has not yet taken an interest in four or five.
Saturday, June 12, 2010
2010-06-12: Baa Baa Black Sheep
Saturday, June 5, 2010
2010-06-05: Bummer, where go, and the end of tepots
Nigel started playing a game in his car seat with the toy camera he got from the recent "Day out with Thomas the Train" event. He would stuff the camera down between his leg and the side of the seat, then ask, "Where go?" Mom or Dad were supposed to be very surprised, and ask where the camera could be. They were surprised, but more by the game than by where the camera was. :) Nigel would keep the camera hidden for some time, then pull it out and say, "There it is!," with Mom or Dad. A great game, indeed.
A bittersweet occurrence happened this day, with Nigel, for the first time, using the word "pizza", rather than "tepot" or "tepots". It was nice to see his language progress to be able to say "pizza", but sad to see the end of "tepots", which was very cute.
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
2010-06-02: Nigel activities update
Dad and Nigel saw a potato bug (pill bug) recently. Dad picked it up and showed it to Nigel, who was very curious.
Nigel has been helping Mom and Dad clean out the garage, sweeping and raking dirt and leaves all over the place. He has also helped Mom plant flowers in the gardens in front of the house.
When he wakes up in the morning, Nigel usually plays in his crib, and always talks to Mom and Dad when he is ready to get up.
Nigel likes flying his stuffed animals around, and provides sound effects for them while doing so.
Nigel enjoys music and dancing with Mom and Dad, swimming, playing with friends and family, playgrounds, and riding in the bike trailer while Dad and Grandpa and/or Mom go for bike rides. Dad and Grandpa ride almost every weekend, usually on the Jordan River Parkway, which is a very nice ride. Nigel sometimes sleeps in the trailer, but that is getting to be less common now. He stays awake for the whole ride quite often at this point.
Mom and Dad have created a game about Diet Coke. "Dad thinks Diet Coke is yucky." "Mom thinks Diet Coke is yummy." Nigel likes applying the descriptions of Diet Coke to Mom and Dad, sometimes intentionally switching around who likes it and who doesn't. Also, Nigel thinks it is yummy.
Mom and Dad like to say, "Ready, go," when announcing the start of activities. Dad uses it for going potty, in hopes it will pay dividends when potty training Nigel. Mom uses it for all kinds of activities. Nigel likes to say it, too, and uses it in a variety of situations.
Nigel likes jumping with Mom (holding hands) and in the Johnny Jump-up toy.
One of Nigel's favorite things is singing songs. Among his favorites are Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes; Tony Chestnut; The Itsy-Bitsy Spider; and The Alphabet Song.
Nigel knows many colors, but his favorite has always been pink! He almost always selects pink anytime he is given the choice. He always requests his food to be served with pink dishes, chooses pink clothes (though Mom usually steers him to the boys' clothing sections), and is tickled pink (pun intended) about anything pink (stickers, cars, toys, chairs...).
Nigel prefers to have macaroni and cheese for lunch, and pizza for dinner. Those are his two favorite foods.
For snacks, Mom often gives Nigel Frosted Mini-Wheats. They call them "wheats", and Nigel gets to request one, two or three wheats. While he doesn't always get the three wheats he may request, interestingly, sometimes he gets more excited about the idea of one or two wheats than three. The number is exciting in and of itself, not just as a quantity.
One day, a house down on the corner of the street was running an outdoor vacuum. Mom and Nigel were on a walk and stopped to listen. For weeks to come, Nigel mentioned the vacuuming noise everytime he passed that corner, and would often ask where the vacuum was. He did not like the noise while it was going, but was interested in the idea of it. In fact, he continued to bring it up even months later, though it only happened the one time.
Monday, May 24, 2010
2010-05-24: Three word sentences and general Nigel update
List of things Nigel is doing:
Counting
ABCs
Songs
Jumping
Running
Colors
Looking at his scrapes
Nigel's favorite stories:
Coke/pepper/delicious stories
Singing songs with actions (Tony Chestnut; head, shoulders, knees and toes)
Funny words Nigel says:
Teapots (for pizza or for actual teapots :) )
Pocurs (pronounced like pokers, and meaning computer)
Oh goodness! (hilarious!)
Thursday, May 13, 2010
2010-05-13: New shoes and two words together
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
2010-04-21: Garbage man
Afterward, while waiting for some toast to cook for breakfast, the garbage truck came by. Dad took Nigel outside to watch the garbage truck empty cans on the other side of the street. Nigel liked this very much, and requested that the truck come back after it went around the corner. They waited for the truck to empty the cans in the rest of the neighborhood, and got a quick glimpse of it as it went through the street behind the house.
While waiting, anxious to see the garbage truck again, Nigel kept saying, "Man, garbage... man?" Finally, the truck came back around to do our side of the street, and Dad and Nigel happily watched it empty all of the cans visible from the house.
Update 2010-05-10: Ever since that day, Nigel has been very interested in garbage trucks and garbage men. He mentions garbage trucks and the garbage man frequently.
Monday, April 12, 2010
2010-04-12: Finishing Jack and Jill
Nigel was climbing in and out of a laundry basket, saying "in" and "out" (the "out" may have been prompted). He ducked down to hide inside the basket and said, "wheredego," (where'd he go) then "thereheis" (there he is).
Saturday, April 10, 2010
2010-04-10: Joining words
Sunday, April 4, 2010
2010-04-04: Easter at the aquarium
In the afternoon, Mom, Dad and Nigel went up to Bountiful to have an Easter lunch with Grammy, Aunt Blaire and Brandon. After lunch, the grown-ups played Masterpiece, and Nigel ran around playing with toys and with some of the Masterpiece money.
Friday, April 2, 2010
2010-04-02: Daybreak visit
Sunday, March 28, 2010
2010-03-28: License plate numbers
Friday, March 19, 2010
2010-03-19: Saying words, counting and looking at tents
Mom counts with Nigel's toes before putting on his socks in the morning. Nigel enjoys practicing counting with Mom or Dad while going up or down the stairs. He likes to take the stairs on his feet, rather than crawling, and only needs a finger or two to hold. After practicing at home, with six stairs on the upper set and seven on the lower, Nigel was walking up the stairs at Kirkham's Outdoor Products with Dad, and immediately after Dad said "seven", Nigel said "eight", then "nine" and "ten", unprompted. Mom and Dad were very surprised! Dad had no idea Nigel even knew those numbers, let alone where they came in order.
The family was looking at getting a new tent for camping during the summer, and Nigel had a great time climbing in and out of the tents and shelters, and running around. He found stickers on the water jugs, put his hands up against the mesh windows, and practiced rolling inside tents. Dad was getting anxious to go camping. Mom and Dad have been planning the first trip of the year, either to Goblin Valley or to Moab and Arches National Park.
Saturday, March 13, 2010
2010-03-13: Nigel vocabulary update
Blanket
Shark
Truck
Goose
Pigeon
Two
Six
Bus
Beep beep
Noodle
Sizzle (or a good try at it)
Crayon
Color
Less recent additions:
Wheel
Car
Whale
Cheese
Milk (signed or spoken)
Up
Down
Apple
Banana
Bear
Bird
Side (as in outside, inside or other side, when breastfeeding)
Cracker (of course)
Hat
Train
Choo-choo
and others...
Thursday, March 11, 2010
2010-03-11: Danna, Austin and Ashley
Dad and Nigel stopped on the way home to pick up a pizza for dinner (mushrooms, olives and pineapple--Dad and Nigel are eating vegetarian). Nigel was very hungry, and at first ate every part of the pizza. Then, as he got more full, he got more picky, and started eating only the saucy under-crust. He ate one entire slice, then three more slices of just crust! Dad was happy to take care of the toppings that Nigel didn't eat.
Nigel and Dad played the rest of the night. There was plenty of roly-poly time on the couch, and Nigel practiced his rolling (he says roll while rolling, and enjoys being helped along, laughing as he goes). Blocks, balls, and cars were all played with. Dad showed Nigel about 'yellow' (which Nigel said) and 'green' (which Nigel did not say). Nigel said "ready, go" numerous times while playing with a wind-up car.
"Ready, go" is what they always say when practicing peeing in the potty. Right now, it is Dad peeing in the potty, and Nigel helping by saying, "Ready, go," along with Dad, but this morning, Dad took off Nigel's diaper and held him up over the potty, and Nigel did get a drop out! An excellent start to peeing in the potty!
Mom came home just as bedtime was beginning. The bedtime routine involves reading a couple of stories every night, and Nigel really enjoys story-time.

